need, want, like

People don't like talking about money, it makes them uncomfortable. It's that which makes people in the west so much more likely to ignore their financial situation. Unfortunately that's the worst thing you can do. Regardless of how good or bad it may look, you need to get right down and dirty with your finances. Once you know them inside out, you can start making them work for you.

As I've mentioned before, I am very aware of what I need to survive vs what I actually have to play with each month. I do this by way of a Need, Want, Like analysis. The needs are essential for me to live. The exact figures may change slightly over time, but they will always be needed in some capacity. The wants are the additional things that I'd be reluctant to loose, but could rid myself of in a worst-case scenario. And lastly, the likes are the things I pay for which I enjoy, but if I were to loose my job or take a significant loss of earnings, these would be the first things to be cut from my budget.

Everyones exact list will be slightly different depending on circumstances. There is no right or wrong to this exercise. It is purely to give you an understanding of what you need to survive, to meet you basic needs. That way, should the worst happen and you loose your job, you already have your worst-case scenario budget in place and will already have an idea of what you will need to make ends meet - even if it isn't the ideal figure long-term. This means if someone were to offer you a new job on the spot, you know right away whether or not you can say yes. Previously this would be a big no-no, but with a NWL tucked away which you can refer to, you know right away whether the money they are offering is actually enough for you to live on.

As an example, here's mine (updated Nov 2024).

need (£1,017)

mortgage

the payment I need to make to keep a roof over my head.

£289

travel

the money i need to get myself to work each day by train.

£43

council tax

a payment to my local council for waste collection, water and other services.

£127

broadband

i don't use phone or TV packages, but given the nature of my work I do need broadband.

£38

food

the amount I need to meet my bare minimum food expenses, won't be pretty but we'd survive.

£250 - £300

utilities

gas and electricity for heating, lighting and hot water for a 1-bed flat.

£95

insurance

in the UK all home owners legally must have buildings insurance, which I pay annually along with contents insurance.

£25

sock money

some money left over for budget-friendly activities for the month.

£100

want (£555)

food

extra money to go towards more / nicer groceries, healthier food options and maybe even some wine!

£100

more sock money

extra money each month to spend on socialising and extra curricular's (i.e the pub!).

£150

christmas

i save money aside each month to spend on gift-giving at Christmas. This means I can spend guilt-free on others without going into debt. It makes January that bit less shit!

£100

sinking fund

a savings pot designed to be spent on things like clothes, home maintenance, eating out, gifting, etc.

£150

mobile phone

a sim-only rolling contract, in my books this is a luxury item, I'd bin this for a pay-as-you-go If I had to - everything can be done over Wi-Fi these days anyway!

£25

extra transport

cash i currently use to put fuel in the car each month to get to work, scouts etc. with more money but still without a car, I'd need funds to get around.

£30

like (£1,344)

new house fund

saving up to eventually move house again, but would be the last of my worries in a financial emergency.

£400

savings and investments*

approx 10% of my takehome pay goes to a stocks and shares ISA, and has done for a long time now, as an additional retirement pot on top of my pensions - this would be one of the first to go in an emergency.

£245

ford puma

contract purchase monthly fee for a new car - would be the first luxury item I'd give up if I had to.

£244

holidays

i save monthly towards any holidays I end up going on, i don't holiday annually but when I do go abroad they tend to all land at the same time, so saving for this helps!

£100

extra sock money

more each month to treat myself with, a nice little extra to have but certainly isn't essential.

£150

car fund

money i save each month to keep my car on the road, i.e annual insurance bill, MOT, servicing, repairs etc. in an emergency I'd ditch the car, so I wouldn't need this pot either.

£100

the gym

a subscription to our local authority gyms and pools for 2 - great but not essential.

£50

miscellaneous subscriptions

several subscriptions for streaming services (netflix, disney plus, apple music), gap insurance for the car, apple care for my watch, icloud storage, etc - all enhance my life but none of them I need.

£55

the big picture

So what do these categories mean for my finances? They give me an immediate idea of how far I can cut my income (if I needed to) and still be able to support myself. 

This becomes more complicated because these numbers here are based on the combined bills for the flat for two people. The exact numbers would differ slightly if I still lived myself - I probably wouldn't have bought a new car for instance - but this serves as a rough guide of the household income I'd need to sustain myself and the flat, without even factoring in Ryans income.

To meet my Needs, I need at least £1,017 in post-tax earnings, which translates to a household income of £12,900 (assuming 5% is going to a pension pot). Without this contribution, the minimum required salary would be £12,250.

To meet my Wants as well, I'd need £1,572 in post-tax earnings, a household income of £22,750 - or £21,300 if not paying into a pension.

To meet my Likes, Wants and Needs, I'd need £2,916 in post-tax earnings, a household income of £50,000 - or £46,900 if not paying into a pension.

£50k is more than I'm currently earning on my own, but remember this is a rough plan based on our combined living expenses for food, council tax etc, but only my personal expenses, savings and investments. Ryans current contributions to the household bills section above is not reflected in this plan, which is rather butchering the numbers - but it's a rough idea.

For reference, we're currently living comfortably on a combined income of £63,900 - and we're both due approximately 5% pay rises by April, so this could rise to £67,000 next year.

Considering we could be bringing in £67k between us by this coming April, but all we absolutely need to keep a roof over out heads is £12,250, really puts perspective on things. Much as sometimes we feel skint, we're really not.

~ Aedan.